Life can often get boring and mundane when you are married with children. I know I often do not even feel like getting dressed let alone go on a hot date with my husband after a long day with the children, paying bills, cleaning, cooking, and laundry. And having sex? Don't even think about it! I've been needed, and wanted, and touched enough!
Do you feel this way with your marriage sometimes? I know I do...A LOT! This is one area I constantly struggle with and the whole reason I started this blog.
Ladies, we must continue to date our husbands. Get off the couch, quit watching The Bachelor, put on something sexy, and go out! Try to do things to impress each other just like you did when you were dating. Sometimes it's as simple as putting on something sexy, or paying your spouse a compliment.
When you do go out, try not to talk about the children or wonder what the children are doing. Focus on each other. Focus on your spouse. Ask him how he is doing. Talk deep and intimate. And make sure he does the same to you. These conversations are few and far between with all the everyday this n' that. But are very important in a lasting relationship.
And then there is sex. Sex needs to happen in order for your husband to feel loved. I'm pretty sure I'm not speaking for myself when I say my husband's love language is "physical touch." This does not mean men are pigs and are just looking to get some. This is sincerely how they feel loved and wanted and satisfied in the relationship. So do it, and do it often. Find time, make time, create time. Be creative. Have fun. Just like regular exercise, it is good to try to new things.
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